Monday, January 14, 2013

Can we belived it.. MARIANISMO can be the base of the conflict. Why women allow or accept Violence. JR topics.


Marianismo

"Marianismo" is an aspect of the female gender role in the machismo of Latin American folk culture. It is the veneration for feminine virtues like purity and moral strength. For example, it represents the "virgin" aspect of the virgin-whore dichotomy. Evelyn Stevens states;
"it teaches that women are semi divine, morally superior to and spiritually stronger than men."[1]
The ideas within marianismo include those of feminine passivity and sexual purity. There is power in marianismo that stems from the female ability to produce life.
This term supposedly derives from Catholic belief in the Virgin Mary as both a virgin and a mother. According to the New Testament, she was a virgin when she gave birth to Jesus. She was eventually given the title "Mother of God" and thus became a subject of veneration and admiration. From this is derived the idea that an ideal woman should be spiritually immaculate and eternally self-giving.
This ideal woman is emotional, kind, instinctive, whimsical, docile, compliant, vulnerable, and unassertive. She has a higher status in the community if she has children and is a caring mother. She is also pious and observant of religious laws.

Origin of the term

"Marianismo" comes from the Virgin Mary (or "Maria"). It is the supposed ideal of true femininity that women are supposed to live up to—i.e. being modest, virtuous, and sexually abstinent until marriage—and then being faithful and subordinate to their husbands. In essence, "marianismo" is the female counterpart to "machismo," and as such, probably originated during the time of the Spanish conquest.
"Marianismo was first used by Elsa Chaney in an article by that name. It was in direct response to the male word machismo and was meant to explain this interesting female phenomenon in Latin America in which women were either saints or whores."
In their book The Maria Paradox: How Latinas Can Merge Old World Traditions with New World Self-esteem (1996, G. P. Putnam), Rosa Maria Gil & Carmen Inoa Vazquez suggest that the concept of marianismo was first discussed in the academic literature in a 'ground-breaking essay written by Evelyn P. Stevens in 1973' and that it has also been further discussed by academicians such as Sally E. RomeroJulia M. Ramos-mcKayLillian Comas-Diaz, and Luis Romero. In their book, Gil & Vazquez use it as applicable across a variety of Latino/a cultures." 
"There have been some responses in the literature to the concept of marianismo that point out that its model of/for women's behavior is very class-based. In other words, the rather sheltered existence, with men doing the hard work, etc. in exchange for the pedestal that women are supposedly on, is a life that rarely exists, particularly for the majority of peasant, poor and working class women that make up the population of Latin America. Remembering Stevens' article, most of her data came from middle class Mexican women

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The Mesoamerican Goddess and the Catholic Icon

The Ten Commandments of Marianismo

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  1. Don’t forget the place of the woman
  2. Don’t give up your traditions
  3. Don’t be an old maid, independent, or have your own opinions
  4. Don’t put your needs first
  5. Don’t wish anything but to be a house wife
  6. Don’t forget sex is to make babies, not pleasure
  7. Don’t be unhappy with your man, no matter what he does to your
  8. Don’t ask for help
  9. Don’t discuss your personal problems outside the house
  10. Don’t change

Meditate upon each one, and write an affirmation to invalidate the power they might have over their conscious-unconscious mind. 

1 comment:

  1. Janneth Quintero Mayorga
    Great u r bringing this out....many people don't know about it.

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